Real Femdom Means Never Having To See a Dungeon

As I continue the tireless struggle to educate and inspire those about the term 'Femdom' and what it really means (as opposed to what the pornographers want you to THINK it means), I love to discuss the more seemingly superficial aspects of oft-perceived Femdom, though there is great depth to this discussion once you dive in!

Sisters, ask yourself:
Do you want to spend time in a world of convenience, where technology, social structure, science and art, all empower you and everyone around you to live in an advanced environment? Do you like the idea of the best medical science, the best education, the best business ethics, the most sensible environmental policies, Do you look forward to a world where Sisters are free to be as creative and free, as accomplished and responsible, as evolved as possible?

…Or do you w3ant to spend any time in a dark, dirty, smelly, dungeon? A place where sickness breeds, barbaric customs abound, and darkness reigns…..

I am amazed at the common correlation so many people give so-called 'Femdom' to barbaric medieval practices. Sadly, many Sisters I know seem to think the trappings of the Dark Ages are somehow required to exercise Matriarchal behaviors.

Whips and chains? Chastity and mutilation? Punishments and Imprisonments in general? These are the techniques and props from horrible periods in human history, not exactly shining moments where Sisters were empowered.,

Give me a nice, slick and clean place, with every modern possibility. Systems that make life more convenient, communication better, networking better……Sisterhood Better!

Of course I realize that everyone has fantasies and should be free to indulge them if they harm no one. It is easy to rationalize the constant bdsm-style conventions as just that. Another 'style' of expressing fantasy. The issue is that most people still confuse those 'fantasy' elements with real Matriarchy, Gynarchy or Femdom itself. In the end, this public confusion does harm and hinders the progress of the everyday Sister, and her connections to the overall Sisterhood.

By the way, if you think modern convenience is the way, but have no problem tossing men in that dungeon, that's bad too. Men that are sick, infected, unhealthy, imprisoned, etc are not going to help the world. If they are going to exist, they must be healthy, strong and positive forces of energy.

Basically, we have a PR problem.
Think about what real Matriarchy means to you, without any trappings such as bdsm or medieval lifestyles.

Personally, I would never 'dress up' or for anyone (including men) or maintain a dark, dingy room in my house, for men…….because that is the opposite of convenience. That sounds like 'working' for men.

I am not trashing bdsm lifestyles at all. I know many of them and work with them often.
Some Related Articles: The matter I am addressing is the public relations hurdle we all must contend with, and that is why new ideas are needed. I hope this blog and its content can help. - GINA

Some related Resources:

Where Is The Dungeon?
http://futurefemdom.blogspot.com/2010/01/where-is-dungeon.html